Thoughts on relationship with older man? Thinking about having a baby with him?
I’ve been seeing an older guy for a few months now, he has been married before and has a few kids. well, he’s actually had kids with 3 different women. With me being in my mid 20’s and him being, well 52, it seems like its wrong, but it doesnt feel wrong. His two oldest daughters are my age and I spend a lot of time with the other, we hang out quite a bit cause we’re similar and share the same interests and get along well. I get along with all of his kids, I actually like having kids around and cant wait to have my own! There are several positives to dating an older man. My friends dont think it makes much sense because its not the type of guy in the looks dept that i would normally go for. I actually think he looks older than his age, but its because of his beard, which has a little grey in it. He’s probably not as healthy as young guy my age, maybe not as hot either, but is more responsible and caring. His only major health problem is kidney stones. I know he said he’s passed over 15 stones and he has passed 1 since ive been dating him. He said doctors dont really know why he keeps getting them, he’s changed his diet, drinks more water and stuff, but still ends up peeing out a kidney stone every once in awhile. I really like this man and want to have a baby with him.
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4 comments
Don on March 30, 2010 at 2:14 pm
There is nothing wrong with dating an older man…but just make sure thats what you want because you will have to live with that forever. I dated a girl who was half my age and she listened to others and ended what we had…we dated for 3 and a half years.But just make sure this is what you want.
Good luck
RAAAA on March 30, 2010 at 2:14 pm
He sounds like every girls dream.
Ghost on March 30, 2010 at 2:14 pm
You know hun…If it feels right, do it! He sounds great! Who cares about age so long as everyone is over 18. There are definitely benefits of dating an older man, and it is so good news that his children are okay with you being so young. If they are open-minded about it, then everyone else should be as well.
Do you know if he wants another child though? Usually men that old are done with that phase of their life. But have a talk with him about it, because you never know. Good Luck! xoxo
Some_ Woman on March 30, 2010 at 2:14 pm
ONLY a FEW months? Wow. You really "like" this man to carry his baby…..OR, do you really "LOVE" this man to carry his baby? My personal opinion would be to wait awhile, your feelings may change after sometime. And then your feelings may not. By giving yourself time, you will be absolutely sure this is the man you want to father your very first child. I am able to say this, because I felt the same way when I dated an older man in his late 50’s (I’m 30). I also though that I would love to carry his child one day. After dating for nearly 3 years, I began to notice that we had alot of generational differences that I didn’t see in the beginning of our relationship. He is a great person, dont get me wrong, but we decided that we were better off as good friends. I am glad I didn’t jump in head first knowing now how things turned out. And, you should always make sure your mate is healthy.